Don’t have s+x until you’re married — Actress Bambam counsels singles as she opens up on her marital challenges with Teddy A

Nollywood actress Bamike Olawunmi-Adenibuyan, popularly known as Bambam, has shared a candid account of her journey through marriage, describing it as both challenging and rewarding.

Speaking about her union with fellow reality TV star Teddy A, Bambam revealed that their love story, which blossomed into marriage after the birth of their first child, was far from a “fairy tale.” She admitted that at some point, they both questioned whether their marriage was truly the will of God, as differences and personal growth brought clashes into their relationship.

“I began to evolve as a woman, and he too was discovering himself. Our differences started to clash, and many times we asked ourselves why we were even here. But I held on to God and His promises for my marriage,” she said.

The actress explained that counseling, therapy, and prayer played a crucial role in helping them navigate the difficulties of marriage. According to her, Teddy A’s decision to surrender his life to Christ became a turning point in their relationship, making things easier and strengthening their bond.

Bambam also opened up about the struggles of pregnancy, postpartum challenges, and the emotional confusion she faced as a new mother. Despite the hurdles, she described marriage as a “learning curve” that has made them fall in love with each other repeatedly through every trial they overcame.

“My greatest joy through the journey has been him having a personal relationship with God. That has been the sweetener,” she added.

Advising singles, Bambam urged couples to keep s+x out of the mix until marriage, seek counseling, and ensure emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual stability before taking the step.

She concluded by affirming that with God at the center, marriage is not without trials, but every challenge becomes an opportunity for growth, making the love journey sweeter over time.